admin How many times have you gone over and over the things that don’t feel right in your life, knowing something needs to change – yet everything stays the same?
You go to work even though every part of you feels out of place.
You stay silent when you really want to speak up.
You hold yourself back out of fear of what others might think, even though deep down, you know exactly what you want to express.
It’s easy to think we’re lazy, insecure, or simply lacking willpower. But it’s rarely about that.
It’s about the ego – the part of us designed to protect us from pain, danger, and rejection.
The ego is biological, deeply rooted in our evolution, and it’s an expert at keeping us in the familiar – even when the familiar is making us miserable.
The ego whispers: “Stay where you are. Don’t stand out. It’s dangerous to be seen. You have to perform, be the best, fit in.”
And so we continue, day after day, living lives that don’t quite feel like our own.
Not because we want to – but because we’re afraid of what it would take to choose something different.
Why Change Feels Uncomfortable
Change means breaking old patterns – not just mentally, but energetically as well.
On my own journey, I’ve repeatedly discovered blockages from past lives, inherited beliefs, or outdated choices that no longer serve me.
These energies act like anchors. They tether us to the old, while our soul longs for expansion.
But the ego – afraid of losing control – clings tightly. It uses those blockages as “proof” that it’s safer not to try.
If you carry a karmic wounds from being betrayed when you followed your dream.
The ego says: Better not to try again.
If there’s a genetic imprint that says it’s dangerous to take up space?
The ego whispers: Stay small. Don’t make waves.
Change asks us to do the uncomfortable.
To defy what the ego says.
To take that step – even when it feels scary.
It’s the only way back to the truth of who you really are.
You Don’t Have to Wait for Courage – You Just Have to Begin
We can live our whole lives inside the known – governed by fear and outdated patterns.
Or we can choose something else.
It begins by daring to listen to the soul.
The soul often whispers at first. Maybe as a longing. A restlessness. Or a quiet knowing that you’re meant for something more.
This path isn’t easy. But it’s the path of truth.
And every time you do something uncomfortable – say no, say yes, speak your truth, let go -you break a pattern.
You expand the boundary of what’s possible.
Change doesn’t happen on its own. It requires action.
It requires us to dare to be uncomfortable.
But that’s where freedom lives.
Not by avoiding what rubs us the wrong way – but by walking straight through it, with your soul as your compass.
